Healing Your Trauma Symptoms Doesn’t Have To Take Years
Your Nervous System Holds The Hidden Keys
Need guidance to recover your life from trauma symptoms? Let me help you get there faster.
The Recover Your Life Process
Healing Trauma Symptoms requires a holistic approach
The 5 Innate Systems
We are holistic beings and when we get hurt it affects ALL of our 5 Innate Systems. Healing requires we address them all and in the right order.
- Energetic System
- Nervous System
- Emotional System
- Physical System
- Mental System
Finally Be Done With Healing
The 5 stages of Nervous System Healing
Tired of feeling or thinking you’re better only to have your trauma has reared its head again?
Chances are you felt relief and didn’t know you had to move through the 5 stages of nervous system healing to make permanent change.
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Bypass The Top 6 Challenges To Healing
It’s hard enough to have trauma symptoms and unwanted behaviors without dealing with the challenges on the road to healing. Remove these critical roadblocks with Recover Your Life.
*Healing is Time Consuming
*Arbitrary Session Times and Appointment Spacing
*Relief Is Not The Same As Healing, Nor Is Bliss
*Relying On Someone Else To Help You Heal
*Niche Healing Industries
My Approach To Nervous System Healing & Optimization
I was first introduced to Tanja the summer of 2013 as a result of a referral I received from a trusted family member. It was at a time of my life when I was facing some huge changes and I felt the need for professional help navigating through those changes in a healthy way.
After my first one hour session with Tanja I was blown away with how valuable the time was. Instead of spending an hour of my life replaying a depressing video of my circumstances to a sympathetic listener, Tanja masterfully guided the conversation, gathering the pertinent information and then delivering to me the actionable take-ways, encouragements, vision, and education I needed and more.
The decision was easy to continue working with Tanja and every session from that point on, whether it was one on one or in a group setting, was just as valuable as that first session.
Today I can look back and laugh at my initial intent for wanting to work with Tanja…”navigating though big life changes”, ha!!! That was just the tip of the iceberg of what I needed and of what Tanja had to offer. I’m grateful that I not only got what I came to her for, but far more. In Tanja’s world, contrary to popular belief, “change is easy”. As it turns out, she is so right. With a mindset based on truth and some practical actions, real change is easy. Just a few examples of change that I am so proud of and thankful for include:
- Greeting each day with thankfulness and excitement rather than wanting to hide under the covers out of the dread of just another overwhelming day
- Exchanging a state of numbness for the ability to identify and feel my true feelings
- Putting a stop to procrastination and taking action
- Establishing healthy boundaries in relationships
- Parenting my children with stronger leadership and conviction
Tanja is a true artist in her coaching craft. She has a depth and breadth of knowledge, a spot on intuition, and a level of compassion that amazes me. I’m so grateful that our paths crossed when they did. My journey of growth and change, challenges and victories will never end, but because of the tools and strategies Tanja has imparted to me, I am confident that I can not only take on whatever life brings, I will thrive. I know that “I’ve got this!”
First - What is a Dysregulated Nervous System?
A dysregulated nervous system refers to the autonomic nervous system, which causes us to think, feel and behave in ways that are driven by unconscious patterns and which generate automatic responses.
You may feel stuck in REACTION mode feeling like even small happenings are overwhelming and you are in crisis mode a lot of the time.
Inability to cope with normal life happenings, emotionally out of balance, hypersensitive to things, spaced out and confused, not able to focus, feeling fuzzy, hypercritical, anxious, and depressed, can all be signs that unresolved trauma symptoms are running your life.
When our nervous system is dysregulated, we will have faulty neuroception which will cause us to over-react or under-react inappropriately, due to cues from our internal physiology which are mismatched with external circumstances.
How Do I Know If I Have One?
In our society today I rarely meet anyone whose nervous system is healthy and operating as it should if they live in any type of modern world civilization.
What Type of Trauma Symptoms do you work with?
Any and all and with a speciality in men and women’s unresolved sexual trauma symptoms. Also I do a lot of work with people who have “been there, done that” and not gotten relief from past modalities.
I heard you say in an Interview there are nervous systems regulation techniques that can actually make me worse?
Yes indeed. Here is a great interview that breaks it down.
The short of it is, IF you have trauma symptoms many popular nervous system fixes will give you relief, not healing, at best and most of the time will actually cause you to re-injure yourself.
The reason is simple, MOST things you read about on the internet for nervous system regulation were originally created for and used for people who ALREADY have a resilient nervous system. A resilient or healthy nervous system responds differently than an unhealthy or low functions system.
What are the next best steps for me to take?
Reach out to me and book your low-cost introductory coaching session with me. It’s NOT a sales call. I will coach you so you get value to walk away with and I’ll answer any questions you have should you wish to work with me.